Personal containers for couples to explore the depths of capacity for intimacy
Transformational Couples Coaching
Maybe you're constantly triggered, walking on eggshells, or caught in the same argument you've had a thousand times. Maybe the affair shattered everything you thought you knew. Maybe the intimacy—emotional and physical—has vanished so completely you can't remember what it felt like to feel close.
Maybe you're contemplating divorce, but something in you isn't ready to give up yet.
You don't need another breakdown. You need a breakthrough.
You're exhausted from the fighting. Numb from the distance. Wondering if this can ever feel good again.
When everything feels broken, intimacy is still possible.
Tranformational Couples Coaching
Payment plans available.
$3,000 for 10 weeks
The Investment
- 10 intensive coaching sessions (60-90 minutes each)
- Between-session support via messaging
- Personalized practices and framework materials
- Recorded sessions for review (optional)
- Access to resources and tools specific to your needs
Includes:
- Practices to do together and individually
- Tools to use when you're activated or disconnected
- Support via messaging for real-time challenges
- Accountability to keep showing up for each other
Between sessions, you'll have:
Practice presence, attunement, and vulnerability in real-time
Address the specific wounds (affair recovery, sexual disconnection, contempt patterns)
Restore emotional and physical intimacy
Create your couples bubble—rituals and practices that protect your bond
Learn to repair ruptures quickly instead of letting them fester
Work somatically to regulate your nervous systems together
Rebuild safety and secure attachment between you
Get to the root of your reactive patterns (what's really happening beneath the fighting)
Weekly or bi-weekly 60-90 minute sessions where we:
How we'll work together
From Chaos to Connection is a 10-week intensive transformational coaching journey that gets underneath your patterns to rebuild what matters most: safety, presence, and deep intimacy.
This isn't traditional couples therapy. This is somatic, embodied work that addresses what's happening in your nervous systems, your bodies, and the invisible field between you. The result? A secure, protected space where both of you can finally be seen, held, and met.
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By the end of our 10 weeks together, you'll have:
- Felt safety in your nervous systems when you're together (not just intellectually understanding, but somatically experiencing it)
- Restored intimacy—emotional vulnerability that naturally leads to physical reconnection
- Your couples bubble—practices, rituals, and boundaries that protect your relationship from external chaos
- Repair skills that let you come back together quickly after conflict
- Presence with each other that makes you remember why you chose this person
- Hope that this can actually work—not because you're pretending, but because you've felt it shift
By the end of our 10 weeks together, you'll have:
- You've been together more than 3 years and feel like you've lost each other
- You're constantly fighting or have gone completely silent
- Sexual intimacy has shut down and you don't know how to reconnect
- You're recovering from an affair and need support rebuilding trust
- You're contemplating divorce but want to know you tried everything
- You're committed to transformation, not just "getting through" another crisis
- You both want this (or one of you is willing to try if the other commits fully)
This Program Is For You If:
Real transformation doesn't come from another communication technique or date night prescription. It comes from being willing to feel what you've been avoiding, to be vulnerable when it's terrifying, and to show up even when you're not sure it will work.
If you're both willing to do that—or even if just one of you is willing to try while the other follows—we can rebuild what's been broken.
The chaos doesn't have to win. Connection is still possible.
What if we've already tried everything?
Yes. This program requires both partners' commitment and presence. Occasional individual check-ins may be included, but the core work happens together.
Should we both be present for every session?
This is coaching, not therapy. We work somatically (with the body and nervous system), use evidence-based attachment practices from Wired for Love, and focus on tangible transformation rather than endless processing. If deeper trauma therapy is needed, I'll refer you to appropriate resources while we continue the relational work.
How is this different from couples therapy?
Some couples in this program are on the brink of divorce. If there's any willingness to try, we can work with that. During the clarity call, we'll assess whether this timing makes sense for you.
What if we're already separated?
If you haven't worked somatically with your nervous systems and created a couples bubble, you haven't tried this. Most approaches work only on behavior or communication—we work at the level of your bodies, attachment systems, and the energetic field between you.
What if we've already tried everything?
Many couples come with one partner more committed than the other. That's normal. In our clarity call, we'll discuss how to approach this together and whether the program is right for your specific dynamic.
What if my partner isn't sure about this?
Facts & Questions
Miriah, San Diego
“I get the opportunity to work with a lot of really amazing people, reflective facilitators and experts in this field that all know about holding space but I have to say, I think you’re the first person that’s ever made it this easy. I usually feel like I have a little bit of walls, but you have an amazing talent for just demonstrating pure acceptance. It’s a gentle nurturing that is really really powerful.”
demonstrating pure acceptance
Cindy, Lakewood, CO
“Thank you so much Kathryn for all of your support and listening and offering such beautiful guidance as I navigated through the most difficult moment in my life! I wouldn't be where I am without you-you are forever in my heart xoxo".
I WOULDN'T BE WHERE I AM WITHOUT YOU
KIRIN, LOS ANGELES, CA
“Kathryn is a wonderful Coach. Warm and gentle. This really opened us to a new level of intimacy we are excited to explore. Already excited for the next class. If you are looking to know your partner more deeply, take this class”.
This really opened us to a new level of intimacy
